How to Float in Water (Even If You Think You Can’t)

So, you’re here because either you or someone you care about just can’t seem to float in water. First of all — let’s take a deep breath. You’re not alone, and this is so common, especially for beginners. Whether it’s a child, a nervous adult, or even a strong swimmer who’s just never felt confident floating, there’s nothing wrong with that.

Floating isn’t about having the “right” body type or being a natural. It’s something that anyone can learn with a bit of know-how and a lot of encouragement.

Let's start with an all too common story:

"I have attended three classes, and however much I try, I am not able to float. My Legs just don't come up and float. My swimming instructor advised me to relax. I tried. Still not working!.. Is it because I am thin and short? My friend who joined me glides through the water easily now. She is much taller and healthier than me and very easily floats. I have no idea what to do! help?"

Why Can’t I Float?

Here’s the thing - if you’re struggling to float, it usually comes down to one of these:

• You’re holding a lot of tension (in your body or your breath).
• You’re scared of the water (and honestly, that’s totally understandable).
• You don’t naturally float, and you need to learn to stay at the surface as you move through the water.

What it’s not about:

• Your size
• Your shape
• Your strength

Seriously, even the most muscular people can float when they relax and move through the water in the right way.

The Secret: Trust the Water

Floating is all about buoyancy - some people have it naturally, and others are not naturally buoyant and need to rely on movement through the water to keep them at the surface.

Your body is lighter than you think when you’re calm and breathing, and here’s what often happens: you get in the water and feel a bit nervous. Your muscles tighten up. You take short, shallow breaths. Your body goes stiff. And - you guessed it - you start to sink. Not because you “can’t float”… but because you’re fighting it.

So let’s try a better way…

Step-by-Step: How to Float in Water

You can totally do this. Here’s how I teach it to my own students:

Safety Note: Have someone with you in the water to support you while you attempt this for the first time and until you gain confidence.

1. Start in Shallow Water

Pick a spot where you feel safe. Ideally somewhere you can stand up easily. Have a friend or instructor nearby if that helps.

2. Lie Back Like a Starfish

• Let your head rest back in the water.
• Ears in, eyes up.
• Arms and legs spread out - wide, like a starfish.
• Imagine the water holding you, like a gentle hammock.

3. Breathe Easy

• Take a slow, deep breath in.
• Let it out gently.
• Keep your breathing steady — don’t hold your breath or gasp.
• Your lungs are like a built-in floatation device!

4. Let Go

This is the hardest part for many — letting go of control. But you’ve got to trust the water and stop “trying” to float. The more you relax, the more the water does the work.

Floating Myths That Hold People Back

Let’s clear up a few common myths I hear all the time…

“I’m too heavy to float.”

Nope. Floating has way more to do with how relaxed you are than how much you weigh.

“I have to move or I’ll sink.”

This is true for some people, but for those who sink easily, movements only need to be small and gradual.

“I just don’t have the right body.”

There’s no such thing. I’ve taught all kinds of bodies to float - it’s a skill, not a body type.

Need some support with learning to stay afloat?

Still think you are not able to float in water?  My book 'The Complete Beginners Guide To Swimming' will show you exactly how to glide, breathe and relax.  Then it will show you how to master the technique needed to swim the four basic strokes.

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